We can have whatever life we want.
It may not happen this second or tomorrow
but give it time.
That’s the thing though, the time part.
What can we do about it?
Play the rules of the game.
We didn’t even have an influence on whether or not we came into this world, we sure is shit don’t get to make the rules of life up. We’re just here and this is how it’s done – letting time play out and eventually we get a result. The results we have now didn’t happen overnight, but over a period of time – so to change is going to take a period of time…
Come to peace with this.