Maybe it feels like someone is out to get you
they screwed up your pay, your hours, cut you off, be annoying all the time, do petty things
and sometimes, that is the case.
Most of the time though? It’s not personal. It’s how they are.
When things don’t go the way we hope, one alternative is to look hard at the system that caused the problem. That’s what most people do.
Another productive strategy is to figure out what to do with what we get, instead of seeking to find the villain that’s causing our problem.
Shit starts to smell different when looked it from the latter.
Joe DiAndrea 