What’s the intent?
the purpose, the goal?
Thousands of reasons could make this up:
Is it to truly spend time with one another because you enjoy their company?
or maybe it’s because you’re insecure and this person brings you light
most people think: what’s in it for me?
what about what’s in it for them? (WIIFT)
Seen through that lends, the script can flip
and maybe the outcomes slowly start to become different
Joe DiAndrea 