Marriage is a cornerstone of society
Or is it?
Perspectives on this change and like most things, there’s some conflict.
The reason for this article is to shed some points of view and to take in this information objectively.
Traditional vs. Modern Concepts
There’s the traditional view of marriage as a lifelong, monogamous union between a man and woman so they can build a family.
At the same time, some modern concepts have expanded to include same-sex marriages, polyamorous relationships, and marriages focused on personal fulfillment (money, statues, protection, etc) rather than solely procreation.
Religious vs. Secular Approaches
Marriage is a religious sacrament; to some – and to others – it’s a legal and social contract, without any religious significance. This divide is one of the reasons why marriage laws, ceremonies, and the role of religious institutions can get a little weird.
Economic Partnership vs. Romantic Ideal
Some see marriage mainly as an economic arrangement for pooling resources and building wealth, a team on the same mission. Others prioritize the romantic ideal of marriage as a getting together of soulmates. Disney did a hell of a job with their princess movies.
Gender Roles: Traditional vs. Egalitarian
Before, traditional gender roles within marriage would be breadwinner husband and homemaker wife. While other couples push towards more of a marriage partnership with shared responsibilities. The ripples from either decision could be things like household duties, what to do with free time, career decisions…
Marriage vs. Cohabitation
As cohabitation becomes more socially acceptable, is formal marriage needed. People for it will argue marriage provides important legal protections, while critics see it as an outdated idea.
What do you think?
There is no set way, so don’t let that be a reason you do something “because you have too”
Each marriage is unique, and these conflicting views show a broader perspective on things like gender, sexuality, religion, and individual rights, and how they relate to marriage. As perspectives continue to evolve, the whole concept of marriage will keep adapting.
What are your thoughts on how views of marriage are changing?
Joe DiAndrea 