Growing up we dependent
We rely on people
For a long time (years)
The people we rely on, how are they?
No really, how are they?
Because someone who’s raising a child – whether they realize it or not – are instilling things like their viewpoints, habits, beliefs into this new human
It’s not about being right or wrong , having the best beliefs or habits, maybe the word is healthy
Healthy beliefs, habits , and viewpoints
Seeing the world as it is vs what we hear
Drinking water vs soda
Believing things work out in the end vs things never go my way
These are just a few and despite who were raised by, we have a choice
A choice to choose healthy habits, beliefs, and viewpoints
Even if our upbringing was the complete opposite of who we want to be
We have the power to change, and become the person we want to become
Causing a generational shift in the family line, the family way of thinking
It’s up to us though, as individuals
Not anyone else
And if we don’t change?
Well that generational trauma will play another chapter
Until someone has the courage to stand up and change it.
Why not you?