I think most kids are accidents, they weren’t planned.
Having kids is a choice
And so is not having kids
The thing is, for some people not having kids is a lot more difficult then having kids – it’s about being careful because both people are fertile
On the other hand, for some people having kids is a lot more difficult – there’s some issues going on
I’m talking about everything in the middle.
The people that aren’t careful, have unprotected sex, and then the girl gets pregnant
It wasn’t planned necessarily, they knew that this could happen – that’s still an accident to me. An unintentional, unplanned accident
There’s nothing wrong with that
But when people think you should have kids and it’s selfish not too
How?
Kids give you purpose, they’re special to you
Yeah that’s for you , isn’t that selfish?
And if the kid comes out with something wrong with them, or turned out to not see things from your point of view
Would you still love them?
Or is the love conditional?
Kids are a big deal and people ought to put more time into thinking about if it’s right for them or not
Joe DiAndrea 