some reflections on this topic:
One of the only things we can control is how we respond to situations
How do we respond when someone’s complaining ?
Complain w them? Let them go?
Do we carry those complaints with us? Or can we let it in one ear then out the other?
Or if someone is rushing us
Do we get flustered?
Or do we continue in our bubble of protection, at our speed?
Imagine how differently two people can handle these situations
And then over the course of time, over thousands of these small interactions
Where are they going to end up?
In two different places that’s for certain