What do we look forward to? That vacation, a raise, a new job, peace and quiet, new car, a better life… “After things settle down…” “After I get over this…” Usually we’re right back where we started. Does it work? Flipping the script, Yano the saying “Wherever you are there you go”? What if instead … Continue reading 1164. Inside not out
1163. Working things out
Things usually work out, right? At least, that's what we hope to happen and when they don't? We figure it out until it does happen
1162. Perspectives
This post is inspired from Gary Vee, coming in at a good time. “This is for all the people who are confused about hard work and burn out... it's for all the people that fully understand that passion and actually doing shit you love is the only option.. There's only two people that work super … Continue reading 1162. Perspectives
1161. And then what?
When we try to think of moves to make - Whether in life, career, to spend our free time We sometimes get those rose colored glasses. The plan or idea sounds like a great move. But then what? What happens after we do the thing we think is so good? Is it bumping us forward … Continue reading 1161. And then what?
1160. Fall down 7, get up 8
Goals are meant to be something to strive for. Most people don’t set goals because, well what if I fail? What if come up short? That’s the point. To force us to stretch. If we only set goals we think we can achieve, are we really growing? Maybe a little bit. Maybe that’s enough. Because … Continue reading 1160. Fall down 7, get up 8
1159. Controlling what we can
Can’t control: The weather What they said or did The past or future How they feel Who are family is Where we were born Death or disasters Time What can we control: Our actions Our perceptions Our Effort Not much, but the more we focus on controlling what we can - the better our life … Continue reading 1159. Controlling what we can
1158. things happen
Well things happen, most things don’t go according to plan, that’s okay. How do we respond? Flare out? Bend? Figure it out? That’s what life is all about, figuring it out And *hopefully* we can learn from our mistakes. Learn lessons Lessons in time, money, and pain I’m not going to touch the stove again … Continue reading 1158. things happen
1157. 200 mile ultramarathon questions and answers.
February 24, 2024 I ran the swammie shuffle 200. This was a 220-mile race from Sandbridge Virginia through the outer banks to Hatteras lighthouse and back. There was a section between Sandbridge and Corolla where there was about 20 ish miles of beach so we hit the beach on the way down and on the … Continue reading 1157. 200 mile ultramarathon questions and answers.
1156. We could also do it later
When we feel like doing something selfish, indulgent, hurtful or short-term, we can simply decide to do it later. And when it occurs to us that we might be able to make a useful contribution or do something important, perhaps we could do it now. When we feel like doing something unproductive, hurtful, or short … Continue reading 1156. We could also do it later
1155. Ambitions
Setting big goals is the next big thing: become a Millionaire by 30 break this world record read a book a day become famous and big goals is fine, it's a way to achieve way more then we ever thought possible but are you okay with discomfort?? I feel most people aren't. This will stunt … Continue reading 1155. Ambitions