Open communication is about being able to talk about anything Not worried if the other person is going to judge you or freak out Or if you make sense It’s about trust and love Trusting the other person, based off emotional deposits and withdraws Loving the other person, giving them t he benefit of the … Continue reading 1447. Open Communication
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1446. Partner Picking : Valentine’s Day
Who you pick to send the rest of your life with mat be one of the most important decisions of your life. You’ll most likely be spending a lot of time with this person and the saying birds of a feather flock together may be cliché but it’s true. We rise (or sink) to the … Continue reading 1446. Partner Picking : Valentine’s Day
1445. Job transition
From working the restaurant dinner shift to getting into local 98 electrical union. A friend asked if I liked it And overall I do like it, some pros and cons no doubt but that just comes with anything I feel like. The best pro is not getting cut - it’s super consistent here. the biggest … Continue reading 1445. Job transition
1444. Meet me in the middle
Is it about meeting in the middle? Or is it about giving everything and expecting nothing? Different contexts could have different answers - there’s a dichotomy to life At work, meeting in the middle could be more appropriate Relationships? Giving everything and expecting nothing could be more appropriate But even that has a point, Do … Continue reading 1444. Meet me in the middle
1443. Work gets done
Are you tucked up hiding? Water cooler-ing it? Or are you putting out? It’s not about going 125% all the time But doing what you can Staying off your phone, doing your work - getting things done that need to get done Ticking the needle The tortoise over the hare Because after all, slow is … Continue reading 1443. Work gets done
1442. What do you do when no one is watching?
That’s what matters That’s how you get better, get an edge Isn’t that what we’re after? Win the day, and stay focused on the process it takes to get to your goals Eventually you’ll get there
1441. Figuring It Out
There's no playbook on how to live We can see what worked for some people, and apply it to our life but that doesn't necessarily mean its going to work for us. We have different situations, circumstances, experiences, opportunities, decisions - and so many other things. Yeah , if it worked for millions of people, … Continue reading 1441. Figuring It Out
1440. It’s on you
If the dog pisses in the house - it's on you If you're fighting with your love - it's on you If your house is cluttered - it's on you If your tired - it's on you If your child doesn't talk to you - it's on you It's always on us - sometimes that's … Continue reading 1440. It’s on you
1439. Sissif
Slow Is Smooth Smooth Is Fast It’s a navy seal saying , because it works When we rush and fumble and have to double back, time gets eaten up, morale gets beat up But when we take our time? Move thoughtfully and deliberately? Maybe in the moment to moment we move a tad slower, but … Continue reading 1439. Sissif
1438. After work flow
I’m used to working 3rd shift. Like 3-11 So after work was pretty simple for me. I was dogged tired: Yoga, wash up, and get ready for bed. Some people stay up after work, they have a different flow. Maybe it’s get some work done, read some pages, watch TV or skim social media, whatever … Continue reading 1438. After work flow