Giving advice is nice and all But is the advice given just to hear yourself talk? Or is the person asking for advice? Because advice without the person asking is just nonsense As the stools would say, you have barnacles to scrape off your ship too So why give unasked for advice? And then when … Continue reading 1457. Advice unwarranted
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1454. Advice to my 10 year old self
Things take effort and time, and they take longer then you’d think Know the difference between a growth mindset and fixed mindset. Believe you can learn and achieve anything, but it won’t come without effort Don’t get too high in life and don’t get too low, you won’t understand this now but when you hit … Continue reading 1454. Advice to my 10 year old self
1453. How long would it take?
Time doesn’t care about the shape of your body or the color of your skin It doesn’t care about your issues or problems It’s one of the only things that is a constant for the entire world And it never stops When something comes up , how long would it take is a great question … Continue reading 1453. How long would it take?
1452. Writing
Writing helps process Sort things in our minds Understand viewpoints , perspectives See where our perspective lies Sometimes what we think vs what we write sound different Writing is a process A process to interpret life And writing everyday keeps that habit going Something easy to do, and easy not to do
1448. Skills over goals
How do most people set goals? Lose 20 pounds Write a book Make $80,000 Spend more time with my kids Goals within themselves are good It gives us a point B to get too. But goals within themselves are empty, it’s the last thing we “get” Lose 20 pounds is the result of a long … Continue reading 1448. Skills over goals
1446. Partner Picking : Valentine’s Day
Who you pick to send the rest of your life with mat be one of the most important decisions of your life. You’ll most likely be spending a lot of time with this person and the saying birds of a feather flock together may be cliché but it’s true. We rise (or sink) to the … Continue reading 1446. Partner Picking : Valentine’s Day
1445. Job transition
From working the restaurant dinner shift to getting into local 98 electrical union. A friend asked if I liked it And overall I do like it, some pros and cons no doubt but that just comes with anything I feel like. The best pro is not getting cut - it’s super consistent here. the biggest … Continue reading 1445. Job transition
1444. Meet me in the middle
Is it about meeting in the middle? Or is it about giving everything and expecting nothing? Different contexts could have different answers - there’s a dichotomy to life At work, meeting in the middle could be more appropriate Relationships? Giving everything and expecting nothing could be more appropriate But even that has a point, Do … Continue reading 1444. Meet me in the middle
1439. Sissif
Slow Is Smooth Smooth Is Fast It’s a navy seal saying , because it works When we rush and fumble and have to double back, time gets eaten up, morale gets beat up But when we take our time? Move thoughtfully and deliberately? Maybe in the moment to moment we move a tad slower, but … Continue reading 1439. Sissif
1438. After work flow
I’m used to working 3rd shift. Like 3-11 So after work was pretty simple for me. I was dogged tired: Yoga, wash up, and get ready for bed. Some people stay up after work, they have a different flow. Maybe it’s get some work done, read some pages, watch TV or skim social media, whatever … Continue reading 1438. After work flow
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