Here's the brutal truth: Most of your suffering comes from giving a shit about things you can't control. The Illusion of Control We waste endless energy: Judging other people's choices Worrying about things outside our influence (like the weather) Comparing our lives to others Guess what? That's a losing game, one that can NEVER be … Continue reading 1378. Mind Your Own Business: The Ultimate Life Hack
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1377. The Hidden Costs of Arrogance in Professional Settings
The Toxic Trap of Expertise Bias Let's talk about how we brutalize new talent. Imagine you're a rookie basketball player thrust onto the court with Michael Jordan. You're fumbling, struggling, trying to find your rhythm. And instead of guidance, all you hear is: "Why can't you keep up, what are you stupid?" This is how … Continue reading 1377. The Hidden Costs of Arrogance in Professional Settings
1376. How to Game the Broken Money System (Without Living in a Cardboard Box)
Let's get one thing straight: personal finance isn't about becoming a monk or eating ramen while wearing a hair shirt. It's about being a goddamn financial ninja. The Dirty Little Secret of Wealth Here's the truth most "experts" won't tell you: You don't have to sacrifice everything to save money. You just have to be … Continue reading 1376. How to Game the Broken Money System (Without Living in a Cardboard Box)
1375. Talk in kind
How would you want to be treated? maybe you can't picture that. How would you want your kids to be treated? Is it with respect or disrespect? Foul language or love? Screaming, "FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU" at a server or manager won't achieve much. It will just make you look (and feel) like … Continue reading 1375. Talk in kind
1369. Prisoners Of War, Missing In Action.
Today and everyday we express heartfelt gratitude to the brave, to all the veterans - the ones who made it back and the ones who didn’t. Thank you for protecting our freedom, our country, our families and friends. One of the reasons we are the land of the free is because of you. Your courage, … Continue reading 1369. Prisoners Of War, Missing In Action.
1366. Begin with the end in mind
Stephen covey brought this idea to the world, it’s probably been said different in the past but the point drives home. Start with the end, and work backwards. Maybe our end goal is to be financially free or have grandkids or reach a 30 year anniversary But something we all share in common is our … Continue reading 1366. Begin with the end in mind
1364. Cluttering Mind, Election, and knowledge
Why clutter your mind with useless knowledge? useless meaning knowledge that isn't important to our line of work or what we are currently doing in the moment. who cares about the facts of the war of 1812, maybe it's important to know the reason of the war, but the nitty gritty? Okay, it was between … Continue reading 1364. Cluttering Mind, Election, and knowledge
1363. Going around coming around
What goes around comes around It’s a cliché something that gets tossed around It sounds good. Do you believe it? Napoleon Hill said, “I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth and justice; therefore, I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects.… … Continue reading 1363. Going around coming around
1361. Keeping honest
It’s easy to cheat when no one is looking To cut corners To not do what you say you’re gonna do But who’s getting cheated? It ain’t anybody It’s you getting cheated. Why cheat yourself? It’s self sabotaging. An easy way out Maybe I just show up, but showing up is only half the battle. … Continue reading 1361. Keeping honest
1360. Garbage in, Garbage out
what we put in, comes out If we put junk in our bodies, we may gain weight or become unhealthy If we ask bad questions, we get bad answers and if we get bad sleep, we have low energy the inverse is also true though. If we put healthy food in our bodies, our bodies … Continue reading 1360. Garbage in, Garbage out
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