My perspective, how I view a situation, what my actions are. That's really it. I can't control the weather, or how I feel. If this person likes me or acts a certain way Or if an unexpected tragedy comes up, if a tree falls down on the car I can't even control whether I have … Continue reading 1105. Controlling What I Can
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1104. leave it better then you found it
It’s a Boy Scout quote, but it can apply to everything in life. Leave the work place better then you found it. Your home better then you found it. The shared spaces better than you found it. Leave life better then you found it. It’s not easy, there’s a million things we’d rather do than … Continue reading 1104. leave it better then you found it
1103. Third Time
If it happens once, it might not happen again but if it happens twice, it's sure to happen a third Then it's up to us, to plan or prepare however we see fit. Asking better questions, what's the best course of action for me right now? Or what's the best course of action for my … Continue reading 1103. Third Time
1102. 21 Money tidbits to ponder on
If you want to play business, pick which business and make sure your bankroll is big enough Building Wealth is a long-term thing and starts now when you have nothing, not once you start making something. Stay out of high-interest bad debt. (High interest) Save a minimum of ten percent of any money you make … Continue reading 1102. 21 Money tidbits to ponder on
1099. Intent creates our reality
By being purposeful about what we create and accomplish we create our very reality. What is our reality? Do we want it to change? Our reality is the result of decisions we've made upstream - in the past. But by being purposeful now - about what we create and accomplish - it's how we create … Continue reading 1099. Intent creates our reality
1098. How do people treat you?
Really how do people treat you? Because one of our jobs in this world is to train people how to treat us... what do you tolerate? That's what we get more of. If we tolerate people manipulating us, we'll get more of it... If you tolerate customers making outrageous demands, you’ll get more of it... … Continue reading 1098. How do people treat you?
1097. Being ‘normal’
Statistically speaking - is there any other way to speak? - a “normal person” is physically unhealthy, emotionally anxious/depressed, socially lonely, and financially in debt... A big fuck you to that - Fuck being normal. Doing your own thing is scary, but it's often what you should be doing shoulda, coulda, woulda - what hype … Continue reading 1097. Being ‘normal’
1096. What to do
What do you do if you don’t know what to do? Figure out what you want Make a decision Learn from that decision And keep it moving It’s that simple, not always easy.
1095. Commitment
Committing to something - “I’m doing this” It’s being on the hook, intentionally. Being on the hook means we don’t have an excuse. “I didn’t want it anyway” “I didn’t try” Well you were on the hook… It can be a vulnerable place But it can be liberating too. “I put myself on the hook, … Continue reading 1095. Commitment
1094. Everyday
Rome wasn't built in a day But you better believe those Romans were laying bricks every day Every day matters. It seems silly and a waste to spend it as a to-do list item on someone else's agenda
Joe DiAndrea 