Deposits and withdraws
Putting money in our accounts and taking money out…
Pretty basic stuff right?
We have bank accounts for our relationships too.
Our spouse, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, parents, friends
These are called emotional bank accounts.
Deposits are the little things
Compliments, thoughtfulness, being interested, appreciation
Withdraws are the big things
Ignoring, attitude, negative, stress, arguments
So the question is,
over the course of our lives
Are we in the green or red for each one of our financial bank accounts? (we should know this)
More importantly, are we in the green or red for each one of our emotional bank accounts