Why do we ask or tell ourselves these things?
I coulda done this
Maybe I shoulda done that
If I woulda done this then that wouldn’t have happened (there’s two)
If we’re looking through the lens of coulda, shoulda, woulda towards the past, we must remember that we can’t change anything.
What’s done is done
We can only learn from it and move forward.
The coulda, shoulda, woulda’s never end up well when we’re thinking of an event that we could change.
However; it’s important to learn from the past
and we must remember to not dwell on it.