Have we ever pointed something out about someone
“That person complains all the time”
“This person is so negative”
It’s one thing to point this out and move on
To learn from it, to understand how not to be
It’s another to judge, to say that’s bad or wrong
To let it eat us alive
Because to a point – it’s also true that what we see in others is a meer reflection of ourselves
The difference is in the perspective.
One is a lesson, something external that I can apply internally to get better
The other is a judgement, that’s bad and that’s not okay – coming from the inside, from MY point of view to the external.
The inside is that unhealed wound we have
A game of millimeter shifts.