If your growing your leveling up
If you’re staying the same – you’re not leveling up.
Obvious
But if we’re leveling up and our “friends” are “staying the same” (aka getting worse)
It makes sense to assume that eventually we won’t be friends anymore.
Either we get held back or they start to grow
So why do we hold onto old friends that don’t grow?
It’s not that we’re better than them, we’re just on different paths.
And no path is better than the other.
The problem is being confused about it.