Dogs pee in the house (sometimes)
And people get super upset when this happens I get it.
Is the reason because the dog’s not potty trained?
We’ll have some work to do.
Or is the reason because he wasn’t let out enough?
That’s on you then.
And this goes for other things too.
Do we have some work to do on something? Are we blaming ourselves and trying to fix it or using a scapegoat?
There’s a difference.
One is controlling our attitudes and responses
The other is being a victim.