“That was unfair”
“They did that on purpose”
“This is great”
How we describe events, it’s all on us.
It’s just like the two kids with a drunk father:
One becomes a drunk
The other doesn’t drink alcohol at all
“How could(n’t) I?” They both say, “it’s all I ever saw”
Malcolm X went into prison as a criminal but came out as someone who pushed for a movement.
Are these people suffering? Or are they making positive experiences?
Acceptance isn’t being passive either, it’s choosing to spend our time, energy, and efforts wisely.
On something better: building plans, working out