We all have someone whose relationship just isn’t there.
It wasn’t just one thing either
It was a bunch of little things added up.
Maybe it was:
Thousands of nags or lies
Criticizing or condemning
Selfish reasons, personal problems
Not seeing eye to eye
The relationship breaks down
To nothing.
Whatever the reason was, no matter how long it takes (1000 years?) eventually there comes a time when it’s worth pursuing building that relationship back up again.
BUT
Just because we’re ready to build the broken into thousand piece relationship, doesn’t mean they are.
Most of the time, people try to build a broken relationship but the opposite happens
they continue to withdraw out of the emotional bank account – the accounts have been negative for years though.
An apology is a great place to start. Maybe a text here. An invite there.
And after a few years, maybe the relationship gets back to what it was.
But thirty texts a day? Not gonna work.
It’s building the million broken pieces back together piece by piece.
Not putting it back together in one shot.
If it’s worth pursuing, then start down that long ass road.
And if it’s not, then don’t.
But don’t fake that shit either – because that person will figure it out.
Joe DiAndrea 