Is what I’m about to say going to add value to this person? Or is it just to make me feel more comfortable, more heard, to boost my ego? Sometimes friendly advice from one can come off as stupidity or ignorance to the other Especially when the person doesn’t read before they write It’s about … Continue reading 1196. Thinking before speaking
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1053. FOUR MORE QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF
Questions are really a way to a more quality life. Why are they always out to get me? What can I learn from this situation? Why do I keep making the same mistakes? What do I want? All these questions have different answers and the answers to those questions either empower us or disempower us. … Continue reading 1053. FOUR MORE QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF
970. The long game
It’s not sexy, but it usually always works A little bit added up each year is a crazy number after 10, 20, especially after 30 or 40 years. Life changing stuff, that happened “overnight” with tons of heartbreak and long days along the way. And it’s relative, some it comes naturally - a blessing. Others … Continue reading 970. The long game
941. Part of it
What's part of whatever we are doing? If we eat junk food everyday, gaining weight is part of it If we work out consistently, building muscle is part of it If we invest wisely, building wealth is part of it There’s always something that’s part of what we are doing… A give and take Sometimes, … Continue reading 941. Part of it
818. What if we could deal with people better?
The idea of sonder is that we all have a voice in our head, our life is as vivid and complex as everyone elses’ But what if we flipped the script? What if we tried to throw sonder out the window? Not all the time, Just most of the time What would we do in … Continue reading 818. What if we could deal with people better?
811. “I didn’t know”
It’s a smoke screen, a lame excuse And it may be real, I really didn’t know But who’s fault is it that I didn’t know? It’s mine. I could have been more aware, planned better, or been more prepared Should have gotten ready more, Would I let this happen again? That’d be my own fault … Continue reading 811. “I didn’t know”
807. 3 steps ahead
One of the beauty’s of being human is that we can plan We baby proof our house so the baby can stay safe, not fall down the stairs or open cabinets to carry a knife around, stay in a certain area Where we want to go or do - we’ll go here, here and there … Continue reading 807. 3 steps ahead
805. 10 pages
Ever ask someone if they read? Most don’t read books, even fewer read anything meaningful Fiction books have their place, but where’s the value? How is it bettering our life? Or is reading a pastime - an escape from reality? Is there a deeper issue? That’s something we have to figure out on our own. … Continue reading 805. 10 pages
725. why workout?
Why workout? Aka move? Why? We’re going to die anyway… I mean, that’s one way to look at it. Another? Our body is a temple. The vessel that gives us life. Without our body what would we be? Maybe that’d be better for some people. But for people like us, we cherish this life. So … Continue reading 725. why workout?
718. What happens when?
Nothing is for granted We assume things. Assumptions are made and most are wrong. A big assumption we make is we’ll always have who we have… Our friends will always be around family will always be around, our significant others, our pets, us… It’s a big assumption to make. Because what happens when our time … Continue reading 718. What happens when?