Have we ever had something happen in our lives and looked back to reflect?  It could be good or bad, but doesn’t it start off with something like this: At first this happened, and this lead to that, and lead to that and lead to that…  A string of events.  Our decisions may seem black … Continue reading 187. There’s a strange string of events

Have we ever had something happen in our lives and looked back to reflect?  It could be good or bad, but doesn’t it start off with something like this: At first this happened, and this lead to that, and lead to that and lead to that…  A string of events.  Our decisions may seem black … Continue reading 186. There’s a strange string of events

Do we ever feel better after complaining? In fact, we may even feel worse.  More irritated, headache, belly turning…  Then why do we complain?  Because our ego loves it.  We feel like we have to complain about it, or if we complain that we’ll feel better  And that’s never the case  This is just one … Continue reading 185. Complaining

It’s one thing to talk about something  It’s another to do it.  Do we just talk about what we want? Or do we actually take consistent steps towards achieving our goal? Let’s remember this saying from the classic think and grow rich: Tell the world what you're going to do, but first… show it.

Do we want a big mansion with a huge yard?  Do we want the tiny house in the middle of nowhere?  Do we want to retire early and travel? Start a business?  We can do whatever we want There’s no right or wrong either, just different.

We all have them, we’re humans and as much as we may want to deny it, we’re social creatures  When we’re with the people we know (whether they’re real or not) we feel at home  This leads to conversations, but what about the conversations that we’re having? Are they meaningful and productive?  Or they shits … Continue reading 182. Side convo’s

Getting in a rhythm, a flow, getting hot, warming up  We hear these things used throughout different sporting events  Finding a rhythm with a golf, nailing every swing Getting hot on a jump shot, making every shot  But what about our weekly rhythm? It’s not as noticeable as a golf swing or a jump shot, … Continue reading 181. Rhythms

I once heard a joke “Lock your wife and dog in the trunk and leave them overnight, your wife is going to be pissed off and your dogs gonna wag his tail” As twisted as it is, it’s true  No matter what, a dog is always happy to see their owner.  I could be with … Continue reading 180. Lock your wife and dog in the trunk

We hear it all the time  Don’t do it like that  Do it this way  I hate how such and such does x, y, z  These are only a few of millions of different criticizing sentences and complaints  But what good comes out of this? We rarely feel better after a session  Our ego loves … Continue reading 179. Criticizing and complaining

Sometimes we ask people something and at first they say no But at some later point in time, an hour later, a day week, month, year - they eventually say yes.  Why is that? Because no doesn’t mean no, it just means no not right now (even though they don’t say “not right now”) This … Continue reading 178. No doesn’t mean no