Getting in a rhythm, a flow, getting hot, warming up  We hear these things used throughout different sporting events  Finding a rhythm with a golf, nailing every swing Getting hot on a jump shot, making every shot  But what about our weekly rhythm? It’s not as noticeable as a golf swing or a jump shot, … Continue reading 181. Rhythms

I once heard a joke “Lock your wife and dog in the trunk and leave them overnight, your wife is going to be pissed off and your dogs gonna wag his tail” As twisted as it is, it’s true  No matter what, a dog is always happy to see their owner.  I could be with … Continue reading 180. Lock your wife and dog in the trunk

We hear it all the time  Don’t do it like that  Do it this way  I hate how such and such does x, y, z  These are only a few of millions of different criticizing sentences and complaints  But what good comes out of this? We rarely feel better after a session  Our ego loves … Continue reading 179. Criticizing and complaining

Sometimes we ask people something and at first they say no But at some later point in time, an hour later, a day week, month, year - they eventually say yes.  Why is that? Because no doesn’t mean no, it just means no not right now (even though they don’t say “not right now”) This … Continue reading 178. No doesn’t mean no

Making a judgement on something is an assumption.  And assumptions could be kindled with expectations.  Expectations  and assumptions are dangerous because a lack of meeting these things results in a habit of frustration. And judging leaves us jaded and closed off.  God doesn’t judge man until the last day, why should we?  We can have … Continue reading 177. No right or wrong, just different.

Be comfortable being uncomfortable  No one likes to feel comfortable  But feelings won’t take us to the top of whatever aspect of life we are trying to climb. Because emotions rule logic.  If we wait around till we feel like doing something, it most likely won’t get done.  So when we feel uncomfortable, it's just … Continue reading 176. Its’ Guaranteed

Do we cut corners at home? At work? With our family? We’re either someone who tries our best every time, or only when we feel like it  There’s not any other option.  I want to be the person who tries my best on every single task Whether I’m delivering a speech to millions of people, … Continue reading 175. How we do anything is how we do everything

The answer is no, because their different  Looking is in the general direction  Seeing is focusing in on something  It's a millimeter difference, and it’s hard to tell from the outside if someone is looking or seeing… Where else can this apply in our lives?

Whatever we’re doing, does who we’re with affect how we perform? At work, do we only work hard when the boss is around? At gametime, do we only try hard when the game starts?  When we’re alone at the house, are we doing anything productive?  See some people give it their all every time every … Continue reading 173. It starts to add up

We don’t always have to be told what to do, We can determine the next best step just by reading the situation  Using our minds to problem solve… the mind loves to solve problems If we just wait to be told what to do, life happens to us and we have relinquished our control.  If … Continue reading 172. Reading the situation