We can take the opportunity to paint onto the canvas of our minds whatever we like If we can see it - in our mind's eye/ someone else doing that - then we can achieve it *if we put in the work Why don’t we get taught this? ‘This’ being “we can create whatever life … Continue reading 809. Lifestyle by design
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808. Read the room
It’s not always about us, even though we may seem to think that And what if everyone told themselves that story? “It’s not all about us” We’d interact with considerate people Not everyone believes that - shit, sometimes we want it to be about us Different situations call for different measures, And being considerate, not … Continue reading 808. Read the room
807. 3 steps ahead
One of the beauty’s of being human is that we can plan We baby proof our house so the baby can stay safe, not fall down the stairs or open cabinets to carry a knife around, stay in a certain area Where we want to go or do - we’ll go here, here and there … Continue reading 807. 3 steps ahead
806. Questioning emotions
Just because we feel a certain way - doesn’t mean anything “I’m pissed so you should stop doing that” …? How ridiculous does that sound? It's easy to point. It's hard to take a breath and ask ourselves questions Why am I pissed? (usually, an expectation wasn’t met) Did I communicate clearly? (probably not) Is … Continue reading 806. Questioning emotions
804. keep up or shut up
Everyone always has something to say Do it this way, don’t do that Go do this Meanwhile, we’re all living our own life. There’s a way to go about certain things. Keep up or shut up is sometimes the best response. “Im getting after it, I know you’re not - so try and keep up … Continue reading 804. keep up or shut up
803. The story we tell ourselves
This typically happens with our physical abilities Ever get injured and go to the doctor - they tell you the problem and we hold onto that with dear life? I got into a car accident before, went to the hospital and they told me something along the lines of this: “All the muscle in your … Continue reading 803. The story we tell ourselves
796. Goals stay the same
We know where we want to go. Maybe we don’t know how to get there That’s okay Because plans can change We drove cross country and had to make a detour because the road was closed up ahead - who cares the reason, we’re keeping it moving And as with life - things come up, … Continue reading 796. Goals stay the same
795. “How you do anything”
Ever hear that saying? How you do anything is how you do everything? What do you think of it? I heard this quote when i was a young teen, and it didn’t make sense to me “It’s just a hose” was the story I heard that flipped the script Jesse Itzler talks about it. He … Continue reading 795. “How you do anything”
793. When no one is looking
How do we act when we’re out in public? Probably different than when we’re alone But that’s what matters… What do we do when were alone? Anyone can impress the public, put on a mask, a front When we're alone though? Its how we get an edge Two people work the same job, the same … Continue reading 793. When no one is looking
792. How fast can we learn from something
We make mistakes - it happens. Miscommunication Distraction Not prepared Running late Saying the wrong thing Staying in our comfort zone Dreaming vs setting goals Keeping up with the joneses Not doing the things we want to do Letting fear take over Listening too much to others Talking to much Finding our “purpose” How do … Continue reading 792. How fast can we learn from something